Dating a girl with no confidence
Nothing interferes with the ability to have an authentic, reciprocal relationship like low self-esteem.
If you can’t believe you’re good enough, how can you believe a loving partner could choose you?
You may even sabotage the relationship because you know your partner will inevitably leave anyway.
You may be hesitant and afraid of allowing yourself to love so that you either abandon your partner before you can be abandoned or you won't allow yourself to get fully into a relationship in the first place.Therefore, you may feel compelled to hold tight to the fantasy of perfection as the bar you set for your romantic partners to live up to. Even if your partner turns out to be solid, consistent, and loving (though not in a flashy way), you may disqualify the efforts, and find ways to sabotage the relationship. Testing Below the surface these insecurities guide your emotions and actions.You can’t believe you could be truly loved and so you test your partner every chance you get so that he can demonstrate his value (which you don’t believe or trust anyway).This applies to all kinds of situations, including approaching and meeting women . Online dating eliminates that need for guys to rise to the occasion.I know from personal experience that once you overcome the fear of approaching and talking to girls, just about any other social situation becomes easy in comparison, including speaking in class or in front of a large audience.